How To Get Your Life Sorted Out for Real

 


“If, as the year ends, you find yourself feeling down and with little or nothing to celebrate, it isn’t because you lack what it takes, rather, it’s a secondary setback owing to your inability to effectively set yourself for success.  The natural truth about you is that you have as much ability, potential, and power, like any other successful person you know.  You however must organize yourself to allow for the use of your power to enable your ability to transform your power into the outcomes you desire.  You’ll need to revert to the learning process and seek first to determine what you stand for in life.  This way you’ll create a firm base from which your intentions for success will be anchored and well-guided.  As you well know, and have often been advised, you must trust in the learning process.  This is because you can’t do much right without knowing.” 

 

Getting My Life Sorted Out for Real

Doing something today I’ll thank myself for as the future unfolds

(CfK Public Seminars “Exercise of Intent”)

 

When it comes to your life, begin with yourself in mind, by seeing in you a value-package of love from God to humanity.  The package of love that you are is the true essence of who you are and what you are here for.  Your natural, and only role, in life is to give away the value-package of love you brought with you, and that is what your purpose for being here in life is about.  There certainly can never be anything more important about your life than the value you already carry within.  Your priority task, any time, is to determine your preferred conduits of value-addition or distribution, and this is where you team-up with others through family, the workplace, community projects etc., or any other partnerships that allow for you to play a significant role in life.

 

Now, to get your life under your full control, and well organized and set to go the distance, you’ll have to not delegate but assume total leadership, in determining where your value-package goes and in what direction to proceed, going into the future.  Like with all other human desires, no great achievements are ever made without leaning heavily on the learning process, and hence you’ll have to schedule moments of your time to learn how to lead yourself, determine what matters most in your life etc., so you can have your life truly set for effective and non-wavering living.  Just to get you started on sowing the seeds for a non-shaky, naturally anchored, and purpose-driven life, below is a couple of self-appraisal tasks to help you make conscious contact with the reality of your present status.

 

Do schedule a solitude or alone moment, half an hour or an hour etc., a day, to ponder over key aspects about your life, as outlined below.  Make sure to commit to turning this process into a habit so you can develop a sense of full control on how your life must unfold, and which way it must proceed.  In a world inundated with an avalanche of endless social views and news, demanding for your attention, it’s very easy for one to get seriously busy, and in the event ignore what’s truly vital to enhancing their own life. 

 

No doubt paying attention to social media can make you feel up-to-date and in touch with signs of the times and give the impression that you are truly living your moment in the best possible way, as you connect more with others.  However, getting too hooked on the ideas of others, to the extent you relegate your inner-self or true-self desires, can see you miss-out on the entire trip of life, as your moment simply wastes away before you can engage on what truly matters to you, which is what you are here in life for. 

 

So, setting aside some alone time to ponder over your progress in making the most out of your living time, is a great starting point to gain the momentum you need to make some real advances.

              

Begin here to give your life some deserving attention:

 

TASK 1 - BURNING PLATFORM

what I find most limiting and a block to advancing my life!

i.                    What I have no control over:

ii.                   What I can do about (i) above:

iii.                 What I have control over:

iv.                 What I can do about (iii) above:

  

TASK 2 – PURPOSE

what I stand for in life no matter what!

i.                    What I stand for:

ii.                   No matter this:

 

TASK 3 – PERSONAL PLEDGE

what I intend to do to grow myself and become a better influence!

i.                    What I will do:

ii.                   What I will not do:

 

TASK 4 – SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS

what my immediate experience is like since beginning this exercise!

i.                    My little successes:

ii.                   My difficulties:

 

TASK 5 – OVERALL PROGRESS

Testimonials

i.                    How you felt then:

ii.                   How you feel now:

 

P.S. You must genuinely accept that your life will never get any better without you stepping up for yourself.  No matter how much you rely on others and blame them for not getting things right for you, you’ll not make much progress, if any at all.  The longer you wait for someone or something to effect changes in your life the more you develop procrastination tendencies, resulting in much of your time just wasting away.  Your best option is to learn what you need to know and follow that up by acting on knowledge acquired to make life happen for you.  Look, you’re not barren of natural abilities and potential to develop, grow, and become effective in creating the future you desire.  Now is the time to do something for you that you’ll thank yourself for, as the future unfolds.

 

 

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 Do you want better in life? Have you any desires to accomplish and feel fulfilled in your experience of life?  If so, let’s go together and reach far!  Please share your views in the comments section if you can.  Long live to you!

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More About Dr. Ben Modie

The core mission of Dr. Ben Modie is to provide motivational education on personal development.  This is with the aim to inspire others to embrace the learning process, so they can develop and grow themselves to live a structured life that is anchored on personal strategic foundations, such as purpose, mission, and vision.  The ultimate goal is to foster a long-term, effective, and fulfilling life experience.

 

Through his life project the Centre for Knowledge (CfK), extracted from a personal strategic plan, Dr. Ben Modie creates motivational content that is provided through presentations, seminars, and workshops at schools, work organisations, and public places.  In addition, Dr. Ben Modie also makes available educational content through books, social media, and blog posts.  

 

For more on Dr. Ben Modie you can get in touch through email at tesbnm@gmail.com or modieb@cfkmotivation.com.  Alternatively, you can search social media @Benson Modie.

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