Three Critical Ways to Manage Yourself and Get Your Journey Going All the Way
Three Critical Ways to Manage Yourself and Get Your
Journey Going All the Way >>
As individuals you and I
have our own values, and have adopted different principles, through which we
govern and manage ourselves, to attain whatever sense of good we desire to
experience in life. Such differences are
usually a portrayal of variations in our individual desires, interests,
preferences, needs etc., the collective influence and effect of which
determines one’s priorities in self-organisation. You obviously have your own preferences in
terms of what matters most in your life, and hence is deserving to be
prioritised and given that much attention in your life. The things we prioritise are more a
call-to-action for us to engage or get involved in life, in pursuance of some
good. My idea of good, which of course
isn’t necessarily the view you hold, is that a great life experience is one
where you are able to create a long-term sense of fulfilment out of your
experience of life. In addition, and
perhaps even more importantly, making sure that your journey of life goes the
distance or reaches far in terms of your continued presence here in human life. This calls for you to step up and design some
form of strategy, because you are the leader and manager of your life, and no
other can know and do better.
Below I share some general
tips on what I consider to be foundational imperatives that are critical in
making sure that you get some long term good out of your moment of human
life. These are some priority life laws
or must do’s (i.e. what you must prioritise), which we often take for
granted and never really give much attention, and then we simply fail to find
our successes and fulfilment in life.
1. Notice
and embrace your moment!
Arguably, there is nothing
else better about life on Earth really that beats the opportunity or moment you
were given to experience human life. The
fact that you are here, representing the history of humanity, as well that of
planetary Earth, is an extraordinary gift that deserves your endless
attention. To develop a greater sense of
commitment to life you must begin by acknowledging the gift of just being here,
embrace it, and take a vow to make the most out of it. Allow yourself to see this gift as the core
overarching element or key to attaining total fulfilment in the experience of
human life. If you can at some point, see
yourself within this momentary space of human life on earth, and rhetorically
imagine a possibility that many did not get such a chance, you just might
ignite a more compelling view about your journey. Surely, if you can truly recognize this moment,
you have here, and see it as all there is, you’ll have built a strong
foundation to have you anchored and well-grounded on, in your commitment to
your journey of human life. So,
embracing this moment of your being, and making sure you notice or give it
endless attention, and then resolving to engage meaningfully all the way, is
your best approach to a greatly inspired and fulfilling life experience.
2. Acknowledge that you don’t know enough and must keep
learning!
The process of learning is the only pathway to
transforming your innate natural abilities and potential into
capabilities. Life, through challenges,
demands that you continually learn to build and expand your knowledge and
skills base. Knowledge and skill are
what you always need to ensure that your journey, throughout your moment for
being, becomes eventful in a fulfilling way.
When you have no idea what to do to get there, or where exactly you want
to get at, and how to get there etc., you’ll get stuck or lost along your
journey, and your moment will simply go to waste. Ultimately, the worst thing that can happen
to you then is that you’ll miss the entire trip of the journey of life. You no doubt don’t want your journey to end
prematurely, and for that reason you must acknowledge the need for you to adopt
a habit for continuous and life-long learning.
If you can understand this and convince yourself so, then you’ll have
set your mental system on enabled, to allow you to keep learning with ease and
hence transcend most barriers showing up along your journey.
3. Setting yourself to act on your knowledge and
skills!
One of the obvious key
lessons about life is that whatever results are sought after must be preceded
by action. Such action, if it is to meet
defined needs, must be deliberate, focused, and organised to yield only that
which is desired. Hence, for you to get
your journey of life on the move and along the right path, you’ll have to step
up and apply what you learnt, understood, and know. Begin your journey by setting yourself up to
appreciate this simple fact that having acquired knowledge, of any quality or
quantity, and acting on such to create results or solutions to meet needs, are
two different phases of development. You
can be learned and harbour a tremendous amount of know-how, but without acting
to transform all that into significant outputs, your life won’t make any
advances. To fully appreciate the
relationship between know-how and results, consider the scenario of a day and
night cycle. If Planet Earth were not in
constant motion (i.e. action), about its north – south axis, there would be no
situation of daytime giving way to nighttime.
Similarly, if know-how is not acted upon to transform the prevailing
situation, there’ll be no new situation or outcomes availed. Though I consider this an obvious thing to
comprehend, I am well aware of Khalil Gibran’s famous quote which goes thus, “the
obvious is that which is never seen until someone expresses it simply”. Nevertheless, I remain hopeful that you do
truly see it. So yes, make it a habit to
learn what you need to know, and then act on it to get your journey forward. Know that without acting you’ll only create
the condition of being forever stuck in your life, which is the opposite of
what you truly desire.
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Do you want
better in life? Have you any desires to accomplish and feel fulfilled in your experience
of life? If so, let’s go together and
reach far! Please share your views in
the comments section if you can. Long
live to you!
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About Dr. Ben Modie
The core
mission of Dr. Ben Modie is to provide motivational education on personal
development. This is with the aim to
inspire others to embrace the learning process, so they can develop and grow
themselves to live a structured life that is anchored on personal strategic
foundations, such as purpose, mission, and vision. The ultimate goal is to foster a long-term,
effective, and fulfilling life experience.
Through his
life project the Centre for Knowledge (CfK), extracted from a personal
strategic plan, Dr. Ben Modie creates motivational content that is provided
through presentations, seminars, and workshops at schools, work organisations,
and public places. In addition, Dr. Ben
Modie also makes available educational content through books, social media, and
blog posts.
For more on
Dr. Ben Modie you can get in touch through email at tesbnm@gmail.com or modieb@cfkmotivation.com. Alternatively, you can search social media
@Benson Modie.
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