Advanced Personal Development Blog @ Dr. Ben Modie

  “If you are intending to live a long and greatly fulfilling life, you’re going to have to demand a lot more of yourself than others.  First things first, you must acknowledge that there’s no other but only you, who is charged with the responsibility to lead and manage your life for better.  It’s crucial that you accept this sooner than later to avoid giving away your power, while expecting from others and risk losing much of your time in your journey.  Your self-leadership and self-management are core in determining whether life will turn out as you desire, and as well the overall extent of the journey you’re likely to travel.  No doubt learning how to self-lead and self-manage isn’t much, if any at all, a part of the core subjects taught at formal educational institutions.  Hence, many of us do truly struggle when it comes to finding a good hold or grip on leading and managing ourselves in life, across the board.  Yes, it’s better late than never, a...

  “Surely, when it comes to the journey of your life, you are the sole accountable person.  This is because you hold the keys to all the defining thoughts, decisions, and choices, on where at any given moment, your journey of life ought to be heading or not.  It is your sole responsibility to influence how your journey will unfold to yield the future you desire to live and experience.  The latter, though you can delegate by giving away your power, it is always best if you maintain accountability as no other person can replicate the exact thoughts and feelings you have about that significant future.  Your critical and non-ending or life-long assignment is to ensure that your life remains significant to you, and that there’s an endless supply of zeal to keep the journey in motion.  If you can’t create a sense of importance about your life, you’ll be like a driver who loses control of the vehicle he/she’s driving and end up with some non-desirable situation....